Things does not change unless you do!
I’m here when you need me.
Shirley, Certified Mind Coach @ alifetolive.net
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Be Proud of Yourself!
I keep reminding my clients that they should feel proud of themselves when they do something to make their lives better! I’m sure you can be proud of yourself, too. If it’s by reading a book that creates a change in your life, by joining a group that makes you feel stronger, by finishing all or most of things you had on your ‘to do’ list or just by finding time to relax and connect. You did it all on your own, so please be proud of yourself!
I’m here when you need me.
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Being married for the second time.
One of my clients, who got married for the second time at the age of 52, said to me that he sees his first marriage as an ‘experiment’ and his second marriage as ‘the real thing’.
In the first marriage he was young, inexperience and mostly busy striving for what he, then, defined as ‘success’.
In his second marriage he is more present, more complete.
I’m here when you need me.
Shirley, Certified Mind Coach @ alifetolive.net
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Why people ignore their inner needs at mid-life?Out of my work with my clients, it seems that many people tend to ignore their needs in mid-life. We tend to be very good at reacting to a crisis, but terrible at planning for one. I think this is the root of the problem. For example, many people stay in mundane, unfulfilling jobs because, in many ways, this is easier than confronting the unhappiness of a work life that is empty. Only when a crisis hits — and it usually will after 40 (a divorce, a layoff, an illness, children going off to college, money problems, and/or emotional problems) — do people finally start to spring into action.Why should you wait that long?I’m here when you need me.ShirleyCertified Mind Coach @ alifetolive.net(Please ‘share’ this post.) -
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Why people ignore their inner needs at mid-life?
Out of my work with my clients, it seems that many people tend to ignore their needs in mid-life. We tend to be very good at reacting to a crisis, but terrible at planning for one. I think this is the root of the problem. For example, many people stay in mundane, unfulfilling jobs because, in many ways, this is easier than confronting the unhappiness of a work life that is empty. Only when a crisis hits — and it usually will after 40 (a divorce, a layoff, an illness, children going off to college, money problems, and/or emotional problems) — do people finally start to spring into action. Why should you wait that long? I’m here when you need me. Shirley Certified Mind Coach @ alifetolive.net (Please ‘share’ this post.)
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‘Second Life’
What does that mean?I see a ‘second life’ as a fresh new chance for people who have begun to feel and realize the possibility of a new existence for themselves. They can no longer relate to some/most/all of the facets of their lives so they want to find their meaning again.
Your second adulthood is your opportunity to turn your most important dreams into realities. Take your time to fully understand, develop and exist in your ‘second life’. You can still balance meeting your own needs and those of others.
Go ahead: crate your best self in your ‘second life’.I’m here when you need me.
Shirley
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MID-DAY MIND BREAK
Identify one thing you could change, add or remove in your daily routine that will bring you more in line with your natural interests.
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Shirley
Certified Mind Coach @ alifetolive.net
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Great video to all the mothers out there
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qEOO-movXRQ (Click the link)
Lots of Love to us all!
Shirley
